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Self Love…Valentines
Self Love…Valentines: Car not feeling ‘the love’ today. In fact it objected to the cold today….-3 on the cards but felt much colder than that… ended up a four and a half hike home that hadn’t bargained for when the car decided that it was much to cold to for it to be climbing the hills from the valley. Still…beautiful sunny day and the walk was lovely…look on the bright side hey.
What is more got to visit the river in a different spot which was a bonus too…with faeries dancing in the morning sun… pretty magical all round.
Valentines next week… been thinking a lot about that…for those lucky enough to receive a Valentines surprise then I am happy and smile for you. If you don’t it can be another reminder of being ‘alone’ which to be honest you could probably do without. Another reminder then that all Love starts with Self Love….and if you are desiring to attract Soul Love then it starts with connecting to your core and unconditionally loving and accepting yourself…
‘Perfectly perfect in all your imperfections,’
Its all very well being told that you have to love yourself first…before you can attract a Soul connection from another….but it is true. Love has to flow…you have to be ‘open’ and through the love of yourself flowing you draw love towards you. Easier said than done though.
Here is an exercise for you…lets start with self love and self – appreciation. For the following days up until Valentines to start with, every days write on a card 3 things that you truly like and love about yourself… self – appreciation: Start every phrase with ‘I Am…’
For example: I am compassionate, I am kind, I am a good mum, I am funny and have a wicked sense of humour…whatever it is that comes to mind for that day, write down the 3 things. The following day however you have to come up with 3 different things… hence by Valentines you will have a list of self – appreciation loving thoughts regarding yourself.
On Valentines… this is where it may seem ’witchy’ but those who know me and my ethos on energy work…energy follows thought…thoughts manifest into reality… On Valentines evening light a candle and read your list out loud… having the awareness that you are sending out love and that love will attract your Soul mate to you.
This may sound simple…you may feel ‘silly’ but at least you will feel that you are ‘doing’ something constructive which is empowering in itself. Dont be fooled by the simplicity either…I have had countless clients over the years who have used my candle method for attracting a Soul mate to them…it works. Just carry on each night lighting the candle and imagining that energy signalling to your Soul mate where you are so that they can find you.
If you really want to intensify the process, continue to write down 3 things that you love about yourself each night, until you get to 101 of them. 101 is a very potent sacred number for manifestation! Remember though no repetition, all 101 things have to be different…on the bright side at least by that time you will have a very clear ‘list’ of what an awesome person you are!
Have fun… play with this and lets make Valentines a magical time for all of us!
Please email me and let me know how you experience this and what you manifest! Or share your experiences on the MYndSpace ‘KaiAmea Achievers ’Facebook group…
Namaste
Enjoy your journey X